Kids grow up too quickly. I don’t just mean by societal standards or anything. I mean physically! Look at my kids. The oldest is 13 going on 21. The time from when she was an infant to teen seemed to fly. Next year she starts high school. My baby! In high school! I know this the natural order but this has caught me almost unaware. She really is a great girl, but has entered the teen years with a vengeance! Where has my baby gone? I look at this tall child before me and catch glimpses of that baby, but more and more, I see the woman she’s becoming.
The middle two are 8 & 6, almost 7. Both are in elementary school and, once again I can remember them as babies. Like their older sister, I see glimpses of the babies they once were but more and more, I see them growing daily. While I rejoice in watching them grow, it also makes me wonder were the time has gone.
My youngest is 3, almost 4, years old. Her independence is almost terrifying to watch, as she tries to do everything her older sisters do. At the same time, she is most definitely my baby, something I’m loath to give up. I know that I must, but its yet another measurement of time marching on.
The truth is that I love the fact that my 4 girls are growing as they are. I am tremendously proud of all of them, both as individuals and as sisters. I wouldn’t trade any one of them for any one or thing. I just want to enjoy the years that I have as their mother. They are wonderful children. And I am so glad to be their mother.

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December 8, 2008 at 10:35 am
Lisa
Sweetie I know the feeling. I look at Matt every day and there are two thoughts that come into my head. It’s either 1) you aren’t allowed to grow up this fast or 2) why haven’t I killed you yet?
I could lie to you and tell you it gets easier but you know me, I’m not all about beating around the bush lol The older they get, the more they talk back. I do envy you though because I would of never been able to raise girls. They would most definitely been sent to the circus
*hugs*
December 8, 2008 at 12:31 pm
Di
I know what you mean–where does the time go? I look at Brianna, and can hardly believe she’s not even six yet–she’s so tall! And Gillian is definitely testing boundaries and wanting to do everything that Brianna does, even though she’s only two. *sigh* There are some things I don’t miss, though. I was up with Gillian for about an hour and a half last night. I know I used to do it all the time when she was an infant, but now I’ve gotten used to sleeping and it seems to be so much harder when it does happen… =)
December 8, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Colette
This is so very true. I do it so often….just looking at them/through them to the baby they were and will never be again. It’s amazing and sometimes I don’t want to let go, but of course I don’t have a choice and maybe I do not want that choice.
Time goes really fast.